Just finished "Pride and Pinstripes: The Yankees, Mets, and Surviving Life's Challenges," an autobiography that Mel Stottlemyre wrote with John Harper of the Daily News.
Mel is one of my all-time favorite people I've covered. He is a true hero who handled everything that has come his way _ and a lot has come his way _ with grace and dignity. And Harp did a great job putting that personality into words.
There's a chapter on how Mel lost his 11-year-old son, Jason, to leukemia, and it's just heart-shattering. Mel and his wife, Jean, displayed tremendous courage in going back to this very difficult time in their life, in 1981, and recalling what it was like and how it impacted them and their two other sons, Mel Jr. and Todd.
There's Mel's story of how he handled his own cancer diagnosis, multiple myeloma, and how he continues to battle it.
And on the lighter side, there is a plethora of great baseball stories. From his pitching days with the Yankees, as he pitched in the 1964 World Series as a rookie and then never again made the postseason.
There are great stories from his time as the Mets' pitching coach, from 1984 through 1993. My favorite is how, in the 12th inning of 1986 NLCS Game 6, that incredible game that I included among my personal favorites here, Mets manager Davey Johnson turned to Mel and said, "You know, you just gotta take in every minute of this. You really gotta smell the roses and enjoy all of this.'
And there are even more stories about his time as the Yankees' pitching coach, from 1996 through 2005. Countless George Steinbrenner tales. Stories about in-fighting with Billy Connors.
Perhaps the freshest aspect, something I haven't seen before, is a real breakdown of the decisions Mel and Joe Torre made during the 2004 ALCS that led to the collapse against the Red Sox. To quickly summarize: Mel wonders whether he had called for a pitchout on the first pitch to Bill Mueller in the ninth inning of Game 4, when Dave Roberts stole second and eventually scored the tying run. He wishes he and Torre had lifted Tom Gordon one batter sooner in Game 5. He wonders whether Javier Vazquez, not Kevin Brown, should've started Game 7, although he points out that they had questions about Vazquez health and toughness.
Anyway, what struck me most about Mel is how much greatness he has personally witnessed. So here's your trivia question:
When you combine his playing career (1964-74 with the Yankees), and four coaching stops (1984-93 with the Mets, 1994-95 with Houston, 1996-2005 with the Yankees and 2008 with the Mariners). Mel has been on the same team as 18 Most Valuable Players, nine Cy Young Award winners and 21 Rookies of the Year. These include his teammates as a player, his superiors (managers and coaches) when he played, players on a team he coached, managers under whom he coached and fellow coaches.
Some players are in two columns. For instance, to use one you'll get, anyway, Dwight Gooden counts as both a Rookie of the Year and as a Cy Young Award. Guys who have won the same award more than once, like Roger Clemens and his seven Cy Youngs, count just once in each column.
So whoever can send me the most correct answers at kdavidoff@newsday.com, in the next 24 hours, will get my Stottlemyre book. And anyone who's a Yankees or Mets fan, or just wants to read about someone dealing with loss and adversity, would do well to get a copy for yourself.