If you're one of those people who gets terror-struck at bringing a young puppy over your threshold into the real world, for fear that he will be struck down with some malady, read this recent column. It talks about how early socialization -- before the 12- to 14-week mark, not after -- is absolutely crucial for a well-adjusted puppy. And the greater risk, say experts, is in under-socializing -- not under-vaccinating.

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I agree wholeheartedly! Early proper socialization is crucial to your dog living up to his full potential as a good pet. Now we just need to get our local vets on board. So many vets are telling their clients that it's not safe to take the puppy out! Far be it for me to contradict the vet, although I do. But when faced with the decision of who to believe, the clients always go with the vet and sequester the pup. Then later on they wonder why they have the dog from hell. Too bad I can't say "I told you so!"
HELLLLLLLOOOOOOO MILA AND FRIENDS!
YOUUUUUUUU WHOOOOOOOOO PEOPLE! WHERE ARE YOU?
XOXOROOBY
Rooby, have I told you I love you lately! LOL!!
Awwww Kathy...how sweet! For sure you're still in my will!
Hope you're having a nice 4th...bbq'ing something and not burning it. We have a fireworks ban here, too many fires burning in the state of California and they don't want anymore starting. It will be good for the pets that there won't be much popping and snapping..My Lilly is afraid of fireworks.
I hope this blog stays crap free...heh
xoxo Rooby
we aren't supposed to have fireworks either Ma but they still do --- my dogs were going apeshit last night from the pops and booms - will have the tv on loud tonight to try to hide out the noise.....hope you're not anywhere near the fires Ma. Love you more that the other Kathy :)
PS - did you get your party bra back from Darlene???
Kath:
The girls are probably having their party now, at Darlenes. I have a feeling I won't get my party bra back for awhile..I talked to Moniker last night and she said they'd be at TimmyP's...heh
I always put the radio on loud so the dogs don't get frightened.
The fires are mostly down south, I'm up north, but we've had our share, but so far, nothing too bad.
xoxorooby
what about me? remember me? i'm still waiting for you. i'd like to go home.
glad the fires aren't near you ---- I think we are starting to get some of the smoke - it's been hazy here the past few days.
That party bra will be all stretched outta shape Ma and will reek of beer and weenies - you may just want to get a new one.
I'm thinking Marnie must be having a lot of smoke Kathy. She's down south and there is one big fire down that way. The evacuated a small town, Big Sur.
I just fed the doggies. I have my daughter's little JRT here...she steals a toy everytime I take her out..
The girls will probably call me tonight......They usually do when they have a party.......It's not a pretty sight.
xoxo rooby
Hello ladies! Happy 4th to you all. Make it a safe and happy evening and here's hoping we all will enjoy the weenies and bbq today!
XOXOXO
Mila
Tell them all happy 4th from Colorado for me Ma ---- Same to you Mila
Rosebud is going balistic, there are always a few jerks who blow up fireworks here. Not even like when I was a kid with pretty stuff. They just have artillary! For for another 20mg for Rosie!!
Kathy Mc...for shame, you didn't socialize your doggie with firecrackers........heh
So far there hasn't been a single blast that I've heard and thats very strange. I live in the boonies and boonie people don't think much about rules and laws...
Poor little Rosebud.......I feel her pain.
So far, the NY ladies, haven't called me...Could i be wrong? Will they forget me? ackkkkkkkkkkk...
xoxorooby
Mine just had their dinner and Frosty Paws for dessert --- will make sure the TV is on a bit louder to drown out the noise - trouble is is that it doesn't stop tonight - it goes on for a week after too so we have at least 2 weeks of the stuff.......
They are probably watching the fireworks Ma ---- they'll call ya
Isn't Darlene is PA this weekend?
Does anyone remember VIVI is frightened out there with all the noise...better for middle aged bags to worry about stretching party bras and thongs....total idiots.
Darlene is in NY this weekend as far as I know...I got my info from Moniker. I think there was a bbq or something.
Happy weekend people!
xoxoRooby
Happy weekend to you also Roooby! Please let us know if Dante starts eating and his status. Praying hard for that little guy.
c u next tuesday suckers.
My dogs all had a good 4th of July. Not one firecracker was set off in my neighborhood and the only noise was late, boom, boom at the Fairgrounds when they had the fireworks display. I turned the TV up and the dogs were fine, me too.
soxoxo Rooby
BITE ME ANONYMOUS
Mine were fine also Rooby although I think we had WWIII on my block - I don't know how people can afford them but they had some big ones that go way up and boom and sprinkle all kinds of pretty colors ----- most go to Wyoming and buy them and bring them back but they sure are loud ---- I had the tv up loud and the dogs don't seem to be too frightened if I am around. Glad no fires are up around you.
Hey Kathy hey Rooby
Fireworks have been going off for 3 days over here, just kids with the little bottle rockets nothing to bad, my dog was pretty ok it's the thunder that gets her stressed, over by Darlenes it was like Macys.
Nice mouth Anyomous, high class trash using the C word, you're funny. c u next tuesday, how old is that, You really crack me up. Good one honey. Keep em coming.
Wht you guys on such an old thread??
Debbie,
We moved because there were over 200 posts on the other blog..We were hoping things would quiet down and there wouldn't be any back and forth going on with idiots.
How was the fun at Darlenes?
xoxoRooby
No one shot off any fireworks around here. Thank goodness it is so dry it wouldn't take much for fires. Will probably be under a burn ban any day.
Kay,
No fireworks could be sold here. The Boy Scout leaders were crying because selling fireworks is a big money maker...Seems pretty bad that they would be selling fire works.
We have no burn signs up at the fire dept..We have lots of pines and manzanita in the area..
xoxoRooby
Does anyone remember VIVI is frightened out there with all the noise? Better for middle aged bags to worry about stretching party bras and thongs. you wish you could wear those things you cellulite ridden saggy breasted old bags. act your ages. not like 20 year olds.
WOW anonymous you are so right... i cannot find a bra that will hold up these saggy boobs.. i cannot find a thong that will do justice to this butt.... wow you are so right...as far as vivi, you who are obviously not directly involved - don't have a clue.... it's sad and pathetic how you talk about vivi.... as ugly and saggy and droopy as we are, guess what - you're worse... hell i can be a friggin playboy model compared to your sorry ass....xoxoxoxo screw you....
quite honestly, you're despised around here... the end... not much more to say... and quite honestly you're here only to try to piss people off.. and you've done that - congratulations... yeah for you... i still think of you as a sad piece of crap....
by the way "PIT BULLS RULE.........."
MONICA
I'm despised? OMG! What will I do? My life isn't complete without the imprimatur of the liars and phonies who post here! Oh no! Vivi is the one who loses here.
well you're still despised... nothing changes that...
i'm sure you're life isn't complete... you're one of those pathetic people who isn't complete if you're not causing crap...
sorry for you....
Anonymous really doesn't seem to care about Vivi as much as she despises us. Too bad anon doesn't put that energy she uses to post venom here and actually go out and search for Vivi (esp when she thinks it would be so easy to find her). Anon says she is a New Yorker-if that is so then let her have at it.
Anonymous, I am sure that you could get the last sighting coordinates and do some searching for Vivi on your own (without the others you dislike so much). If it is so easy then Vivi is waiting for you, too. Unless you are just someone surfing the net and came across this blog and does not even know who Vivi is, you go out and pound the pavement and quit complaining.
Mila
Here you go anon, since you live in brooklyn and Vivi was spotted in Brooklyn, go pound the pavement in you Manolos, Rockaway Blvd border of Brooklyn, south of the cemeteries, do I need to drive your ass there, while you are out there go check out by Rockaway, Liberty and Woodhaven, there may be a park over there, or do you not know how to get there, well Rand McNally makes a thing called a MAP. Try it is works, and who said Vivi was afriad of fireworks?
You need flyers, I will send you some along with tape, staples and a staple gun, be a man and give us your addy and I will be glad to forward you some, it's about time you got off the computer and walked or is it to hot out there for your botx ridden face, breasts to saggy they may hit the ground walking, you have an area now talk to people or can you only hide behind a keyboard and criticize everyone else becasue you dont know how to talk to someone face to face. Is gas to expensive for you? The vivi fund will reimburse you. Now what are you going to say, you have an area or is it you want us to go out and do all the work for you so you can come back and bash us again, afraid someone will do the same to you if you can't find her, afraid of being called a loser or failure or someone blaming you if she never gets found. Maybe if you drive around you will see flyers and say I guess they did post for her around here, so you see you have no idea what goes on or when the last time someone was out, and it was not 22 months ago, but if you were actively helping you would know that wouldn't you. Were you in the parks in the winter with cameras and food everyday in snow? were you in the heat posting flyers and looking in cemeteries? If you can say yes applaud applaud to you, then you are better than us, if not shut your hole and pound the pavement like a real trooper. Go find her if you can.
Well said Debbie! Anon now has all the info she needs to get out there and walk the walk so she can talk the talk. No more BS, anon. Just do it.
Mila
Mila I am so sick of these so called help find Vivi people shooting their freaking mouths off and not doing a damn thing to help, they claim they are NY'ers but can't get off their lazy asses to contribute anything , try faxing a flyer to a local vet or pet store or do we have to have people from out of state do that as well. Seems the local ones are the ones doing the criticizing, hello Brooklynite I have lists of lost dogs in your town, want me to forward them to you or do you have that phobia where you can't leave your house. Grow up Jackass.
Come on honey defend yourself now for not helping, you have the areas, you drive, gas pedal is on the right in case you forgot.
Been there, done that.
You crazy animal people are selfish jerks who only care about yourselves. You don't care about the animals; it's all about feeding your own egos. You forgot to add in your rant about all the rules and restrictions about type of posters, sizes, wording, when to post, where to post, how to post, who can post where, who's so great because they managed to figure out how to use a copy machine and print out more flyers than anybody. This whole debacle turned into a pissing contest with the loser being vivi.
" imprimatur " another big word to confuse us dumb shits. I'm calling my attorney in Seattle asap!
GOT YOU ANON! BACKPEDAL NOW, AND RUN FOR THE HILLS. ALL YOU ARE OFFERING ARE REASONS WHY YOU ARE NOT OUT THERE .....you have been given the location of the last sightings, posters and the tape/ staples and you have been there done that? In the last two weeks? HAH.
YOU STARTED THE PISSING CONTEST NOW GET OUT THERE AND FIND VIVI SINCE IT IS SO EASY.BRING HER ON IN.
Has anyone contacted Denise or Newsday to block this pitiable person from posting? It's really getting old and it is not about Vivi at all, it is all about "itself" while trying to shift the blame of not caring about Vivi onto others.
Why? its a public blog. Do you think you are more interesting. Hardly. Boring is more the word. Bossy as well....get lost. All views need to be heard and expressed....it is in Vivi's interest that the truth be told and heard now.
98% of what is posted here is not and never has been about Vivi. that's the problem. Look at what is posted including people's life history that nobody gives a rat's behind about. Vivi stopped being the main topic here....this fight is for her.
And let's not even get into the money that everyone donated...What a scam. ZERO accountability. Someone made out like a bandit.
Anon, your point was nobody was looking for Vivi, then and now. Get yourself out there and look for her. Your posts are a smokescreen....jealous and sour grapes, left out poor little soul. This is not about Vivi, this is about poor you.
Hello truth be told, what truth, that I gave you areas and you tip toe around why you are not out looking, you come back with some sorry ass excuse about flyers not being the right size, hello I told you I have flyers, and we don't care about animals, yeah good one, I'm waiting for your answer as to why you are not out there without coming back and beating around the bush,
WHY ARE YOU NOT OUT THERE LOOKING, IF SHE IS NEVER FOUND IT'S ALL YOUR FAULT THIS TIME,
Not a public blog. Owned by Newsday. They can block or find out who/where anyone is that may be visting their website if they want to.
Your rants are not about Vivi. They are about yourself only.
Still haven't found yourself in the psych article link have you, all you dysfunctional anonymous posters. We know your sicknesses are doing all the talking. How about antisocial personality disorder? That not a fit? How about Borderline and narcissistic personality disorder, or maybe Alexithymia. This little excerpt states empathy (which you are lacking even for Vivi, or you would be out searching for her now that you know where the sighting was) and lack of it, are central to personality disorders:
"There is no dispute that empathy – the capacity to share and understand emotional states of others in reference to oneself – plays a critical role in human interpersonal engagement and social interaction".
Come on back with your mentally disturbed retorts. We know it just confirms the denial of your illness. Everything you say just confirms examples of your dysfunctional disorder. Just trying to help you see yourself. Or do you lack any capacity for introspection also? Go on go out and get some help now. There is a whole article there at that link that tells you what is going on, and that there is help for it.
You know, they say in the end it is in the blink of an eye that it all becomes crystal clear what your life was or wasn't. Truly it is a tragedy to get to that final end and see in that final moment how you wasted it on meanness. Help yourself before it is too late. And please please if you are in NY go out and look for her. Put all that energy into her. C'mon you got the information you say no one will give out on Vivi. Get up and go search for her, do something for another living being. Show that you do not lack empathy and that you have been pegged all wrong
If your true concern was for her, we all know that's what you would be doing instead of displaying your lack of empathy and antisocial behavior for the world to see.
Oh Libby....let me give you a napkin! Wipe the BS hanging off your lip! HAHAHAHAHAH!
What did you say meatloaf??
Was that narcissistic personality disorder?? Thank you for the clarification
Is that anything like the visions of Vivi eating meatloaf off a dinner plate in some third eyed person's visions?
The funniest thing about all this is the time you waste writing long dissertations on justifying your actions regarding Vivi and I'm not even going to waste my time reading it.
poster at 15:51
Your very response to specifics within those long posts suggest to the contrary that you do indeed read them:
Thanks for the clarification again:
"Although people with narcissistic personality disorder have an exaggerated image of their own importance, they have vulnerable self-esteems and often don't like themselves. Therefore, they seek attention that confirms their grandiosity. When feedback doesn't validate their exaggerated image, they tend to lash out or withdraw."
Sound like any bloggers here that continually lash out at others?
ANON: please clarify your statement ' justifying your actions regarding Vivi '. Nobdy here has to justify anything to you or anyone else. You're the one who has a need to justify to us how speshul you are. What a pathetic lonely loser you are. On a blog all weekend because you have no friends
So what about Vivi? She wants to go home. You live the closest to the last possible siting. Call the 866 number, get the exact location and report back with the areas you searched and put up flyers.We would hate to waste our time overlapping your areas. Need any supplies?
Very good word, "speshul". I like it and will try to use it again and again.
I am speshul.
Viv is speshul.
Assholes have a speshul place in hell.
HEY PEOPLE!
I JUST TALKED TO VAL BARNARD
, HER WHIPPET DANTE ISN'T DOING WELL AGAIN.
HE WAS AT THE HOLISTIC VETS YESTERDAY AND SHE CAN'T FIND ANYTHING. THERE IS A POSSIBILITY HIS KIDNEY IS ACTING UP, BUT HE IS DRINKNG AND PEEING.
PLEASE PRAY FOR THIS SWEET DOG. HE NEEDS ALL THE PRAYERS AND GOOD THOUGHTS WE CAN GIVE HIM.
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=DANTE
XOXOROOBY
Hey Important-Know-It-All-anonymous.
I think it's your falut that Vivi hasn't been found. Why don't you get your arse out there an post flyers and hunt for her instead of passing the buck?
I'm waiting for you anonymous to come find me, what's taking so long, why won't you look for me, it's all your fault, you didn't bother to look for me, people offered you supplies, why did you not look for me.
I sure would like some Harry KFC. He had a way about eating it! He made it sound, finger lickin' good.
Yumm Anon, don't ya think?
Yeah, it's my fault some idiot baggage handler at Delta let vivi out of her crate. Get real. Its YOUR fault for all the time wasted at the beginning of the search with everyone tripping over their egos and creating fiefdoms in "their" search areas, not to mention reward money on their minds. It was bull from day 1. And whatever crazy weirdo is posting about KFC, I don't have a clue as to what the hell you are talking about. I've never been to KFC in my life. And no guy I know would ever take anyone to eat there.
Anonymous.........well? Waiting for an answer. Need supplies asshat?
What relevance does what happened 2 years ago have to do with today? Why are you bothering to bring up the past. The past won't help Vivi. That was then. This is now. And FYI: the searchers may have argued but they still worked together and got the job done. More than I can say about a lonely loser like you.
Walk the walk or shut your mouth. You weren't involved n the search 2 years ago so whats it to you anyway? Concerned about Vivi? Like I said.....you'll be supplied with posters,tape and staples. You're the closest one now. So when are you going out to search?
Got the job done? That's a good one.
oh my, what guy would take Anonymous anywhere?
Most guys don't want lieing tramps to go out with..
Maybe Anon has a bed and bath to take her dates to?
You get calls for a lost dog from the flyers you put up. 10,000 were put up by the searchers. I'd say yeah,they got the job done.Now its your turn. How many flyers are you going to put up?
Time to put up or shut up. Let us know how many posters you need so we can send them to you ASAP. Just think,it'll give your lonely arse something to do at night since you have no social life or friends.Might be good therapy for you.God knows you need it.
Vivi is still out there waiting for you.
I will throw in a flashlight and a porta potty for those nights when she is out in the woods and there is no bathroom around. Oh, and lets not forget a large heavy duty spray for those killer insects, crawling up her pants leg and drawing blood...
So how many flyers do you need, and what happened at the airport was not our fault so why were we blamed throughout the whole search, we are not the ones who chased her in a truck and scared her, still waiting to see how many flyers you need, I have assortded sizes and colors plus the sleeves to put them in in case it rains while you are out posting. Don't see you here so can we all assume you are out posting flyers, Staples has good deals in case you need to print a few thousand.
Since we already posted all of Queens and parts of Brooklyn it should be a snap for you to do 1 town. Get them sneakers out.
I have some door knob tags left too. Happy to give them, its not too bad walking up and down the blocks putting them on peoples door knobs.. Go early in the morning or late at night when its not too hot..
Bring plenty of water, a body dehydrates quickly in this heat..
I just found some tape, I will go and make up a box for you right now. Just give us your address and name..
KathyMc, I have 1 (one) knob hanger and a bumper sticker. I'll donate them to ano
Oh my goodness, how could I forget. Have to teach you how to set up the cameras so you can go and monitor them. Might be a good idea to get one of those pepper spray devises, never know who you are going to meet. And the feeding stations too, they always have sales on those large bags and they won't take up too much room in your trunk, not with the posters, flyers, tape, staples, bottles of fresh water, etc. that is. At least your lucky you won't have to carry that stinkly bait in your hot car, now that would have been a odor that would have had your friends and family begging to take a ride in your car.
When you go food shopping just put your groceries in the back seat, works out just fine.. No problem, you will adjust to the life style changes quickly enough..
Kathy I forgot about bringing water, remember to lug along some food and bowls to put it in, better bring a shopping cart to haul all your supplies, water and food, make sure it folds up so you can put it in your trunk to use the next night. Don't forget a leash and squeaky toys, seems like alot of stuf to bring but you can do it, you sound like a real trooper, good luck.
Yes, a leash is very important because when Vivi comes up to you, you need to be able to secure her when you bring her to a vet for treatment. Don't worry about the phone calls in the middle of the night either when we get a sighting. Just keep some cloths within reach and off you go, microwaves are great for warming up the dinner you had to leave to run out.
And don't forget to set your alarm for 3 AM so you can pull the card out of the camera and replenish the food at the feeding station BEFORE you go to work. I hope you aren't afraid of stray dog packs and raccoons. If you are,oh well. You'll get used to it.And once winter hits.we will give you pointers on how to unstick frozen camera locks and the best way not to slip and slide down the hills after you walk a half a mile from your car carrying a big bag of dog food and a gallon of water.
Hi anonymous, it is me, Vivi. Remember me, lost in Queens/Brooklyn? Even though it is said you are very narcissistic, I think you remember me. I heard you are close by and got lots of good suggestions on how to help find me and offers of supplies, food water, posters, lots of good stuff.
Please come out and look for me. I need to get away from the mean streets and people.
Waiting and longing to see you out here,
Vivi
She is going to have sooo much fun, I am glad we are able to help her. Its nice to help people that really want to be part of a team. Wish we had somone to tell us what to do when we first started out, she is very lucky, isn't she? She doesn't have to do things the hard way by trial and error. Remember those 40 lb. bags of sand we had to carry around for all those feeding stations we set up in the very beginning. Boy she lucked out on that one..
Don't worry Vivi, Anonymous is on her way to save you. Hold tight and run to her when she get there.
Anonymous must be sleeping, 3am will roll around soon enough to get the feeding station set up before daylight, if you need anything do not hesitate to call us, oh then again you don't have our numbers do you, damn it's gonna be lonely out there with noone to talk to or help you lug your supplies in the rain, got a poncho??? Make sure you don't get a rash from it, some are rubber, you want to get the good heavy duty plastic one with the hood that has ties. Keeps the rain from getting down your shirt. I guess I'll go to sleep since I don't have to get up for the 3am feeding. Good luck. Give us some good news, we are counting on you.
Oh I forgot to tell you anon.We pretty much have every clean bathroom mapped out in the area in case you may need to use one.You just let us know if you need that info too
I remember the bags of sand that were spread so foot prints could be seen. I remember the crate Debbie set up and somone wanted to borrow.
I remember night pictures that were taken of all sorts of animals and people.
I remember the scrapes and cuts and long, hard walks looking for Vivi.
I remember Vivi and she she sure as hell didn't talk. What a great thing if she did.
I remember all the hours the gals on New York put in, posting flyers and searching, not just shooting their mouths off like anonymous of this chat is doing.
I will always remember Vivi and what people did for her.
I won't give up on her, ever.
It's kind of amusing. Anonymous hasn't fired back any comments lately. I loved the comebacks that you NY gals had.
Bravo!!
Maybe Anonymous is out pounding the pavement and posting flyers.
Or maybe Denise has blocked our little friend. That would be good, more time for her to do that posting gals! Haaaaaa
I heard, but I could be wrong, Anonymous has fallen and she can't get up. She's in a valley of thorns, poop and bottles and cans. Maybe she will stay there and repent, or not! Perhaps she got friendly with one of the people who do their drugs in some of the areas at night.
GOOD MORNING PEOPLE!
DANTE REPORT:
I WAS WRONG ABOUT DANTE'S WEIGHT LOSS. I DON'T KNOW WHY I THOUGHT VAL SAID HE'D LOST 12 LBS...IT WAS 2 OZS. SO HE'S GOOD IN THE WEIGHT DEPT.
LAST NIGHT HE HAD SOME CHICKEN BROTH AND SOME PIECES OF CHICKEN AND SOME TREATS. HE WAS ANXIOUS TO GO FOR A WALK WITH TROTTER AND ZIPPER!
VAL IS PROBABLY GOING TO TAKE HIM INTO THE VET TODAY.
HAS ANYONE HEARD ANYTHING ABOUT VITAMIN B12 HELPING DOGS REGAIN THEIR APPETITES?
LIGHT A CANDLE OR TWO FOR THE DEAR LITTLE BOY. XOXOROOBY
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=DANTE
OH BOY::::::::;MORE WRONG STUFF ON MY PART.
I MEANT TO SAY I WAS WRONG ABOUT THE LOSS OF 12 ounces, NOT POUNDS..........
ACKKKKKKK
xoxorooby
YAWN. Yes, you've all established how great you are.