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Vivi Voices #6

The sixth in an occasional series. Happy Halloween, everyone!

Name: Denise Flaim

Location: Long Island

Dtrio1_1 Age: 41 -- honest!

Occupation: Journalist, supermom, blogger.

Family: Long-suffering husband Fred, toddler triplets (“the human litter”) and two Rhodesian Ridgebacks.

Hobbies: Dog showing, gardening and over-the-top Halloween decorating. (Want to see my talking Bucky skull?)

Favorite Halloween props added this year: Animatronic witches that were originally Mr. and Mrs. Santa Clauses. (Amazing what a little Fimo clay can do.) Last year, had to be the werewolves, which are really retrofitted wire reindeer.Witches2_1 

Favorite Halloween libation: Brain Tumor shot (peach schnapps, Bailey's Irish Crea and grenadine).

Role in the Vivi search: Blog tsarina.

Most vivid Vivi-search memory: Trying to interview Karin Goin in a tiny office in the Posh nightclub with the music booming every time the door opened, which was often.

Worst Vivi-search memory: Mistaking a concrete lamb for the wily whippet while on patrol with the infamous Tina and Rosa. (Hey, it was through a fence, OK?)

Weredogfs2_1Previous column fodder at the paper, before she started the companion-animal beat: Nightclubs, electronic shopping (I got busted surfing eBay during a training session, so they had me cover it) and home.

Best interview: Ozzie Osbourne. Turned out I didn’t need the tape recorder — he was not only intelligible, but funny and real.

Worst: Gene Simmons. It was years ago, and I can still remember how obnoxious he was.

Favorite meal: Polenta and sauerkraut -- the pellagra diet.

Guiltiest pleasure: “People’s Court” reruns. Three minutes to Milian!

Most embarrassing thing my dog's ever done: Attempting to breed a sheep during a herding instinct test. He had instinct, all right.

Most recent Amazon purchases: “The Looming Tower,” “Potty Power” DVD.

Most disconcerting thing to colleagues: When I start discussing dog breeding on the phone. “Is she flagging?” gets them all twitchy.

Img_0060_8What I was doing at Westminster last year: Getting an Award of Merit, just like Vivi (albeit it in the Ridgeback ring).

Worst thing about the blog: When people think I am blocking their IP. (Something I have done only once.)

Best thing about the blog: It is a testament to the very human — and noble — desire to be part of something bigger than ourselves.

Funniest email I've received about Vivi: “I saw the face of Vivi etched in a piece of toast at the Scobie Diner on Little Neck Parkway. I know many will not consider this a true sighting, but I think it was a message. Unfortunately, I was hungry that day and might have missed the only real opportunity to unravel this mystery.”

What the blog has taught me: Build it, and they will come.

Comments (613)

Denise, absolutely adorable. And those pups too! Thanks.

Diane,

Wow what a great photo of you and your dogs. They are simply gorgous. Thanks for sharing.

Denis your babies are gorgeous always loved the breed and the pups are precious, just want to kiss them all.

debbie - you'll kiss anything with a pulse!!!
ha!!!! love you - i am off to make halloweenie cookies now with John (your husband)

Soooo gorgeous!

Denise and a good Blog tsarina you are. Triplets, what will they be for Halloween? Do you have any of the puppies left?

Yes i will you should have seen me kissing my babes on Sat, mushy mushy face they were and so would you, I see you with hello angel, HA I know you want to plant one on chubaka

LOVE the costumes. YOu are all the proof I need that Hallo costumes do NOT make dogs insane. We are insane, they just watch with ammusment!
I enjoyed your article in Whole Dog Journal this month.
Bless your dog lovin soul. I am so glad the world has YOU in it.

After all a human who has litters is one of us, right???

:-)

I love the pictures. How are the pups doing? A great write-up of a wonderful person. Thanks so much for all you do.

Thanks Denise for all you've done and are still doing for Vivi and for all of us who are Vivi-obsessed. I sincerely appreciate being able to check AH (at least 20 times a day, many at work, and, thank goodness, I've never been caught!) for Vivi news.

Thank you.

Teresa G

Hey Denise,
Thanks for sharing even more of yourself and family with us- and thanks for all you do for our animal friends.
Lydia

previously a frequent but "silent" visitor to your blog, I first wanted to say great job, and second i was wondering if any of you knew of any young adult ridgies with great temperment available in KY or the surrounding states, or also thinking of a pair of whippets (recently lost my very dear whippet...in the life sense, not the missing sense, and am ready for a new "roommate") Please email me at kaauch0@yahoo.com

Psalm 29:11
The Lord will bless His people with peace.

Good morning Daddy God. We ask you to give your peace to your precious army of rescuers. They have worked so hard and the sacrifices they have made will only be known by them and you because they don't complain. We ask you Daddy God to see to it that they recieve the honor and respect they should have. They have suffered so many things, physically, emotionally, and sometimes spiritually when the enemy tries to put thoughts of fear into their minds. Lift them up high above your shoulders Daddy God and strengthen them with your love, your presence and your supporting grace. It is you they are working for, not anyone else. They love you and they love your creation. Vivi is very dear to their hearts. Bring them total victory in the task you have sent them out to do. Let their lights shine brightly and their love flow freely as you work through them to bring Vivi home.
We thank you with all our hearts for your protection, guidance and care over Vivi all these months. We thank you for continuing to care for her and for sheltering her under your wings of safety and warmth. Lead her to the rescuer you have chosen today Daddy God and let the joy of laughter fill our hearts. We thank you for bringing Susan through the struggle of adversity into your light. As we release her from our prayer list, we ask you to continue to strengthen her with each passing day and bring her healing to completion. Bless her Daddy and bless her family. Keep her safe in your arms and cuddle her next to your heart as you raise her up into your perfection. We add Vern to our prayer list Daddy God. Please bring him home to his family along with Vivi. Continue to speak to Vivi and lead her to rescue. We ask you to comfort and console Henry's family with your love and assurance that he is alive and well with you. Give Henry kisses and hugs from us as you welcome him into your kingdom of love and perfection. We lift up all of our loved ones to you in faith and in belief of your total victory and deliverance.
Luke 15:4
What man of you having a hundred sheep, if he lose one of them, does not leave the ninety and nine in the wilderness; and go after that which is lost until he find it?
Daddy God, continue to speak to and lead all we have brought to your throne to the safety and love of home with their families. Help us to find them Daddy God. Vivi, Biggie, Sniffles, Rags, Faithful, Little Aussie, Mommy, Daddy and Baby Girl pup, Apple Riley, Holly, (bring her out of the desert to safety) , Precious Hosanna, Buddy, Annie, African Grey, Patterson, pointer, Jack Russel, Grey Tabby, Bowdee, Yorkie, Shimi, the cemetary strays Buttons , Ticket, Tarik , Black Afghan Hound, Lola, Manee, and Vern. Bring them home to their families and Manee to his habitat of safety and comfort Daddy..
Isaiah 53:4-5
Surely He has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; yet we did esteem Him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted. But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; the chastisement of our peace was upon Him, and with His stripes, we are healed.
Holy Jesus, continue to touch our little ones with your precious healing power, CJ, Dante, Felice, Max, Little McGee, Murphy, Mylie, Barbaro, Gunner, Linus, Kiva, Ellie,(restore all that had to be taken), Morgan, Little Andi, Nicki, Dude, Brandy, Tucker, Lexie, Isabella,Twin Kittens, Bowen, Pie Bird, Heather, Doogie, Clarus, Prince, Star, Skeeter, Scout, Tigger , Ezmeralda, New Foundland, Tank , Billy, Lilly, Auggie, Dodge, and Sparky. Continue your miraculous healing grace in our brothers and sisters, Madison, Baby Girl, JL, Lance, Pam, Chris, Pat, Jacque, Darlene, Kim, BJ, Rose, Mary Ann, Kathleen, Abby, Renee, Renee's friend, uncle and cousin, Lois, Millicent , Gail T. Button's owner, Joyce, Gail's mom, and Julie. Continue to protect beloved Israel and America as they battle terrorism to keep us free. Shelter them and give them victory. Protect the innocent and lead them to safety and provision. Bring justice for Otis, Otto, and Boxer Puppy. Bring Freedom and deliverance for Duke. Bring your sweet deliverance to Tammy and Doogie. Give them righteous Judges who will honor your creatures Daddy God and bring Duke home to his mommy where he is meant to be. Help us to raise all the funds that are needed, for you are our provider. Help those who are looking for employment to find the place you want their light to shine. Increase and bless them Daddy. Fill our lives with your glory as we work and watch for your Son Jesus, our Savior. Flood this earth with your glory and power for all to see. Bring Vivi home Daddy God. Let this be the day Daddy God....Let this be the day INDEED...In Jesus's Name we pray....Amen

Fear knocked at the door, faith answered...No one was there...Ancient Inscription

Too darn cute Denise.:)


Happy Halloween everyone.:)

I do want to clear up one thing from yesterday. The person that I referred to with regard to Harry's information is NOT Irene.

beth - speaking for me, i am done rehashing all of that stuff from yesterday. we know who it is so guessing it out of the question. don't care - we have work to do before friday. so, that is all i am saying on the subject.

Yep, good luck with this weekend. Maybe being honest with the searchers would be a good start.

Yep, good luck with this weekend. Maybe being honest with the searchers would be a good start.

OK THIS IS RIDICULOUS NOW!!!! You are questioning the integrity of one of kindest, most caring people I've ever met and it makes me sick! Darlene has given up a normal life for the past 8 months to look for Vivi and has been nothing but honest with everyone!!! Waiting for the right time to say something, or the right way to say something is not being dishonest!!!!! You didn't see her agonize over all of this - I did!!! Her only thougts were being up front, kind and fair to the searchers and the people on the blog!!! So before you throw out unfounded accusations, get your facts straight!!! Attack me if you will, but don't dare make unjust accusations against Darlene or any of the other searchers for that matter!!!

I'm not making accusations. You all know what you will share and will not share. That's your choice. I'm simply saying any search with a tracker would be more valuable if all the information were on the table for them to consider. Personally, I do not believe that's being done. As far as being fair to people on the blog, if telling half-truths and keeping little secrets is being fair, then you are right, Lois. They've been fair. I have a different definition of what is fair to everyone else who has stuck by this search, donating money, making posters, trying to get trackers out there. In case you haven't noticed, we are at a little bit of a disadvantage. We don't have multiple sources of information. We count on you, our fellow searchers, to be upfront with us about what's going on. I've got some pretty good evidence that information has been withheld. Maybe you all think you know what we should and shouldn't know, maybe you think you have the right to do that. Fair enough -- but then at least people should be honest about it.

Ever since this search started, I realized that the outcome could go either way. She could either be alive or dead. I personally do not want to hear any gory details about possibilities that may or may not have happened. I am thankful these weren't listed on the blog. My salute to you foot soldiers of NYC!!!

beth: let's get a grip now, shall we??? i'm not going to be attacked here and then be expected to be respectful. i have not attacked you and i think i deserve the same. i have NO CLUE what you are talking about as far as information goes - NONE of us do. be upfront and mention it. i am not playing here. the last bunch of info. we all got was BEFORE Harry came in. end of story. chasing sightings - yes. calling people who saw her that rosa could not understand - yes. we've been doing that all along!!!! what's' the diff??? as far as the ac's go, i explained why i thought i should wait until after the dogs came in to post it. agree or disagree with me - fine. without any proof, what was I to do? just come on like a bull in a china shop, like yesterday, drop the bomb, and hope that everyone could handle something that we don't know as truth yet? that is hurtful and doesn't accomplish a thing. whatever "hidden" information you think we (I) have, you are sadly mistaken. i was upfront with YOU privately weeks ago, discussing the ac's and such when you asked me. what the hell do i have to hide now? i am not part of any conspiracy here. i don't have the time nor the energy to deal with it. as for Harry - the only info. i have is the map info. which has already been put up on here - approx. 30+ locations that i saw with my own eyes - only 4 or 5 searched. that is it. the end. rest of the time, posting on my own - just like i did the weekend harry was here and i had no clue about it. i guess i was screwing myself and trying to pull a fast one on myself. where is all of this going? listen - if you don't trust us, just say it and we will move on. i am not the one who pulled anything on any of the girls here - none of the NY searchers are. if someone is giving you information and you want answers - ask!! what happened to asking? seems to work for most of the girls and believe it or not, they do get answers if we can answer them.

Yes, a search with a tracker would be most valuable with all the information available. So where is the information about Harry's investigation? Where is the information on how he came to his conclusion? Where are the details that would be of immense help to the trackers? That information is being withheld from everyone - people on the blog as well as the searchers! We have been asking for this information for weeks but have been ignored! Why the secrecy?

thanks, pam. we do appreciate your confidence is us. please remember - we are just girls like you all are - we are not superheroes. we are doing our best here. just pray we have the strength to keep going. that's all we ask. :)

Thanks from me too Pam!! Your support works wonders!!!

I believe that Harry's investigation was shut down because the local volunteers didn't like where he was going with it. Why don't you ask the local volunteers why they didn't want Harry to pursue his investigation? They have the answers, not Harry, Lois.

What exactly have the searchers held back? The fact that Vivi may be dead? You mean to tell me know one thought about that? There's no proof, why post something if there is no proof? The same goes for Vivi being taken, again, there's no proof. It was said before that not everything would be posted on the blog to avoid crank calls. Let's move on and help instead of hindering these animals.

Now on to the important stuff. There's an afghan hound lost in PA, he's out there and has been seen. Please, if anyone is in the area that Tarik is in can you help? We are not in the area but doing the best we can. Lisa only has two to three other people out there looking for him and posting flyers.

Let's get back to helping these animals otherwise Denise might as well just shut the whole blog down, I'm sure it wasn't put up here for mud slinging.

I just wish I would have known a group like you guys when we lost a pair of Huskies years ago.
We found the 1 after a few days but never did find the other one. It always leaves you wondering what happened to that other dog.

Now i have to say something, beth for you to sit here and attack darlene is rediculous, if you all want the truth lets lay it on the line right now, i told lois B some things in confidence and she had the disrespect to go and tell you and then you have the nerve to attack darlene, come after me if you want, but this has got to stop, we have done nithing to anyone and if we held info it was because it was our decision, what we do here is noones business, is anyone helping us, it is easy to sit back and throw stones at us, do you all know what we have done, how we have been trated, so give us a break and stop this crap, if she is gone accept it and stop fighting woth us, noone wants to say it and if we do we get bashed, everyone was happy we worked with AC, but when one told us something bad we get attacked, I also do not like confiding in people who we thought were friends to be betrayed and then having it used against us. Stop it now, we are sick of it, come ind search yourselves beacuse we are done after this weekend, so accept that.

what are you talking about?????? we didn't even know he was here!!! hello?????? this was already stated 500 times. i am NOT going to defend us. knock it off. and what you "believe" is unfounded, ridiculous gossip!! better tell that "informer" of yours to get their facts straight. why in the world would i be posting around cunningham park friday after work when Harry was here and obviously, Rosa needed help with him on the opposite side of queens? have people gone nuts??? debbie, me, Monica, and BJ BEGGED rick for Harry on aug 30th TO HIS FACE. why would we do that and then flip the coin once he got here? secondly - i was in PA starting sept. 1st and came back the wed. before he arrived. so, let's get the facts straight from your little source. i challenge whoever to prove me wrong. so, with those particulars, you can now leave me out of the Harry conspiracy and look for another scapegoat. and i agree, kathleen and gail - however, when i get stressed, i choose not to belittle others. i find a more effective way to handle it. i tried to move on earlier and now i can with the facts on the table.

Here I thought we were all here for the same reason - VIVI. The trackers are coming this weekend - something we have been waiting and praying for and instead of being psyched about it, upbeat about it, excited that some good news may be found out - we are PLAYING GAMES - how childish is that. To hell with who knows what and why someone didn't say this or that - everyone has their reasons - BUT - if there is something that someone knows that will help with this search for Vivi - SHARE IT. It does absolutely no good to withhold what could be aluable information just because you can - NA NA NA NA NA NA - I know something you don't NA NA NA NA NA NA - HOW CHILDISH - you guys are adults - or at least have adult bodies - act like one. Stop the name calling, the inuendos and the like and GROW UP.

I'm not siding with anybody but I know why Darlene and the others did not share what the AC told them - it was a simple gesture of trying to save some feelings - the AC told them Vivi was dead - don't think a lot of us would like hearing that or would react to that - and besides - saying she is dead is just that - saying it - not proving it or making it a fact. The searchers kept on looking as if she is still alive -

Now - Act like adults, grow up and if you have valuable information that will help the trackers in finding Vivi this weekend - SHARE IT and get off your high horse.

Here I thought we were all here for the same reason - VIVI. The trackers are coming this weekend - something we have been waiting and praying for and instead of being psyched about it, upbeat about it, excited that some good news may be found out - we are PLAYING GAMES - how childish is that. To hell with who knows what and why someone didn't say this or that - everyone has their reasons - BUT - if there is something that someone knows that will help with this search for Vivi - SHARE IT. It does absolutely no good to withhold what could be aluable information just because you can - NA NA NA NA NA NA - I know something you don't NA NA NA NA NA NA - HOW CHILDISH - you guys are adults - or at least have adult bodies - act like one. Stop the name calling, the inuendos and the like and GROW UP.

I'm not siding with anybody but I know why Darlene and the others did not share what the AC told them - it was a simple gesture of trying to save some feelings - the AC told them Vivi was dead - don't think a lot of us would like hearing that or would react to that - and besides - saying she is dead is just that - saying it - not proving it or making it a fact. The searchers kept on looking as if she is still alive -

Now - Act like adults, grow up and if you have valuable information that will help the trackers in finding Vivi this weekend - SHARE IT and get off your high horse.

pam: i'm sorry..... i am sad for the lost one :(
and if it were in NY, you bet we would have tried.

People, Beth is a lawyer, she knows how to talk in circles to get information out of people, I'm used to it. Just ignore her if it bugs you. If she had information she would post it, if she doesn't than we know she has none and is searching for it. This isn't helping the trackers for this weekend at all. Anyone with ideas for this weekend plus throw it out here. Anyone with accusations...can it, we're not interested.

Debbie, you are wrong and now you are spreading lies about Lois B, without any basis for doing so! I am very fond of Lois and I think that is unfair of you to do that. I have not received ANY information from her. In fact, I have barely spoken to Lois B. about the Vivi thing recently. Certainly nothing about the local search. You owe Lois a huge apology, Debbie.

gail, margot, kathy kathleen: exactly!!! we are working on places for the weekend. i already asked for that consideration. thank you for asking once again on behalf of those who have alot to do and little time left to do it. can we move on now please and get it together? i don't want to be cranky anymore.
hello, debbie, my evil twin :)

kathleen - NEVER would the details be posted here. don't ever worry about coming on and seeing aything like that from the weenie gang. we have no right, nor any invitation to post that type of material.

Happy Halloween. I think everyone here is just frustrated.

Someone a time back became annoyed with me (which I understand) for not sharing all my "visions" as I hold back waiting to see what continues over a period of time - like a few days or a week or so. I felt really badly thinking I was not doing right by the searchers or by Vivi, but in my heart I knew I just couldn't "tell" it all.

The foot soldiers are doing their best and cannot be blamed for not sharing information that is rumor or based upon guesswork or even visions etc. They simply have to base their searches on "reality" of what they actually see and it is not easy.

As far as the "death energy" goes - Vivi likes cemeteries and there's lots of DE there. So any AC meditating on her when she is in a cemetery is going to pick this up and get confused. It's to be expected. Also, she could be sleeping under a house where someone is ill - and won't make it past another winter - and an AC can pick this up and wrongly thinks it's Vivi.

So, it makes no sense to share hurtful information that is not supported by facts and reality.

AC's can always be wrong including me. I think if the information obtained is going to "hurt" the search for Vivi then it shouldn't be shared. Some things are just not helpful.

I do believe Vivi is safe and warm and happy.

I have posted everything I know. Everything I know is just a bunch of unanswered questions and facts that don't add up. Yes, I am an attorney and I am trained to ask questions and put answers together. The answers you all have provided simply don't add up. That's all I have. Harry shows up, unannounced. Something happens while he was there to convince him that Vivi was recovered. He leaves. At about that time, a bunch of people are trying to convince many of us long distance volunteers that Vivi is dead, although they've apparenty felt this way for some time. Why push this at the time of Harry's visit? Isn't that strange? Well, it is to me. Harry recommends that a police report be filed. It is never filed. He wants to continue an investigation. It is opposed. Why? We all have nothing to hide, right? Why oppose him continuing with whatever he wanted to do? I don't know what that is, by the way. He had a trained tracking dog who did not pick up a death scent. Suggests Vivi is alive, not dead -- contrary to what the AC's said. So why was everyone trying to convince us that Vivi was dead? The AC I've dealt with believes Vivi was alive.

If I had more answers, I'd share them with you. I am not the one who has the answers. But I can sure put questions together and figure out what, in my opinion, is going on. No one has to agree with me. No one has to even ask the questions, if they don't want to. All of this led me to the same conclusion that Irene posted yesterday, which is why I also posted -- whoever (and I'm NOT saying it's a volunteer) has Vivi, if you do, just let us know that she is safe. No questions asked. End of story. Let us go on with our lives. You don't have to give her back or say anything more. That's all I was doing! Geez, then you all get so defensive. More questions arise, unfortunately.

I have posted everything I know. Everything I know is just a bunch of unanswered questions and facts that don't add up. Yes, I am an attorney and I am trained to ask questions and put answers together. The answers you all have provided simply don't add up. That's all I have. Harry shows up, unannounced. Something happens while he was there to convince him that Vivi was recovered. He leaves. At about that time, a bunch of people are trying to convince many of us long distance volunteers that Vivi is dead, although they've apparenty felt this way for some time. Why push this at the time of Harry's visit? Isn't that strange? Well, it is to me. Harry recommends that a police report be filed. It is never filed. He wants to continue an investigation. It is opposed. Why? We all have nothing to hide, right? Why oppose him continuing with whatever he wanted to do? I don't know what that is, by the way. He had a trained tracking dog who did not pick up a death scent. Suggests Vivi is alive, not dead -- contrary to what the AC's said. So why was everyone trying to convince us that Vivi was dead? The AC I've dealt with believes Vivi was alive.

If I had more answers, I'd share them with you. I am not the one who has the answers. But I can sure put questions together and figure out what, in my opinion, is going on. No one has to agree with me. No one has to even ask the questions, if they don't want to. All of this led me to the same conclusion that Irene posted yesterday, which is why I also posted -- whoever (and I'm NOT saying it's a volunteer) has Vivi, if you do, just let us know that she is safe. No questions asked. End of story. Let us go on with our lives. You don't have to give her back or say anything more. That's all I was doing! Geez, then you all get so defensive. More questions arise, unfortunately.

Back in the beginning it was agreed that not all of the information about the search should be posted. And it was not. This is an open form and any one can read the information and could have used it how ever they wished. So for Vivi's protection the information was delayed or not posted. Now you are all upset that information was not posted. Well I for one am glad that the searchers had enough in them to hold on to the information received from several ACs and try to find out if indeed it was fact. They did not want to post information with nothing to back it up. I give them all the credit in the the world for trying to find proof and not just walk away.

I for one thank you all.

It seems we are wasting valuable time arguing with the searchers on the blog that they could be using for putting together ideas for the new trackers coming in this weekend. Let's let them relax and concentrate - this argument is futile.

When people are upset (as obviously these ladies have been upset), it is hard to think accurately and completely. Let's be Team Vivi and help them to get this job done well for Vivi - as they always do.

If we wish more information, let's do as they suggested and just e-mail them and ask for it. I do not wish the gory details on the blog either. We do not know if these are even true at this point.

Thanks everyone for your love for this little dog. We are all just very stressed right now - understandably.

I don't post much but I had to come on after all this crap on here. As you all might know, I joined the "foot soldiers" in June - much later than most of you and I've joined the weenie gang (hi Darlene, Debbie and Lois - Old Lady continues to kick butt and recover!!) Beth, I'm not a lawyer but it seems you might know more than us no?? Don't attack like that when you've obviously been misinformed. This group has nothing but the best intentions and were really not treated well from the beginning. If you must know, the last time Rick was in is the first time he met me - at the park searching. I said to him that I would want to keep her. Do you really think I would have been stupid enough to say it to his face if I meant it? I (we) were very frustrated since we (near and far) have funded every attempt made to find Vivi - no??? So your informant may have a warped version of that. Secondly, we tried out best to get Harry here that night - once again to no avail! Then finally, Harry comes and we're not told - very productive. In conclusion - whoever you are talking to - close friend or not - please do some research into where they got their information. I expected you to be smarter than to come on here and attack the girls who have been in this from the beginning. Very sad if you ask me - but whatever!! (I can be childish too! haha) May heaven forbid that I ever suffer the tragedy of losing one of my dogs - I want these girls searching. Love ya girls!!

Beth, than maybe you need to go Rick, who was given all the information, and ask your questions that seems to be what everyone else does. I don't see as anyone was trying to convince anyone that Vivi was dead, infact it was never mentioned on this blog. Why?? Because there's no proof and there's no need to upset people. An ac said she has passed, an ac said she is alive...so what's the problem here? I'm not seeing the point of all this. You need to go to the source such as Harry or the owners not the searchers, they don't have all the answer to whatever your looking for. They're not told everything which was obvious when Harry was here.

Geez. I'm not taking my anger out on anyone. I simply posted that I agreed with Irene, if someone has her, please just let us know she is okay. No questions asked. Suddenly Darlene and Debbie jump to the conclusion that Irene and I are suggesting that a searcher has her. Don't know how we even got there. Moreover, I don't even CARE if a searcher has her -- good for you if you do! I would be THRILLED to death to hear that! Anything that means Vivi is alive and being cared for. No questions asked!

How is this an attack on Darlene or anyone else? Can we please remember this is about Vivi, not about egos?

darlene, You girls are superheros to me
and I am sure alot of other bloggers would agree.
I agree that certain things should not be published
on this blog. Hell look what Harry did to us
on this blog with his sarcastic comments. Best of
luck this weekend with the trackers, and I will
be praying for some news, good or bad, we need
help. We Love the Vivi foot soldiers !!!

i understand there are questions and i am not going to explode anymore. we have questions!!! and none have been answered either. we don't have any part in the Harry search. never did - never will. the truth be told - we were calling Rosa and she was told NOT to pick up her phone. by who? the weenie crew didn't make the arrangements so we certainly didn't stipulate that as a part of the Harry search - to ignore our own phone calls. i was getting calls asking if rosa was OK. and i was calling her as well. no answer. as for the ac's - we heard from 5 or 6 of them - the same scenerio. 3 of them months ago. debbie and i were personally called and informed of what may be. as for the report and the outcome of Harry's search - did you ever see me once ask for it? why? do the math - if this was hush, hush from the beginning why would all of the details be spilled at the end? we knew that was the plan so why even ask. i am not getting defensive, i am ony defending the truth - the truth the weenie crew knows. we have never been given control here so i don't know why we would be viewed as the people who hold all of the details. that has been my point all along. ask and we will answer you. we have nothing to hide here. we haven't played people against each other - ever. we haven't been sneaking behind the scenes to pull one over. and - never ever have i ever tried to persuade anyone to believe anything about vivi. i relayed what i was told - period. i am only the messenger and for this i am crucified? that's not the way to do things. and as for someone having vivi - could be - anything could be. but how does one pinpoint a specific area and state without a doubt, there it is. she was taken from here. c'mon - no one is that good at anything. my opinion only. but seeing we were not invited to the party, how can we tell you what happened and why? we can't even tell ourselves. our heads are spinning here as well but never have we come on here and accused anyone of deliberately doing something harmful to our girl. now, can we please just stop this? i was told that in order to really concentrate, calm must prevail. i am not going to get so upset that this affects the search this weekend. you need your head and your gut in tune and dare not miss a clue. so, i am asking again that this mess be dropped.

BETH: Why are you taking your anger out on Darlene who is one of the best people Vivi could have. If anyone is witholding info it's you. Why don't you just post Everything you know. I posted the info from Harry, even tho I knew I'd be slammed by some, which I was, but frankly I didn't care who said what to me. It's you who is being secretive and then you have the nerve to slam the searchers. Why??? I know Darlene can take care of herself but FYI anyone who slams her will have to get by me first.Try being forth coming yourself and post all that YOU know.

beth - i am done, ok? i was done this morning very early and again, am extending the olive branch for this to stop. i did not care from the beginning what Irene had said. it was thrown on the blog about "some searchers think vivi should not go back to calif." it was said - right to rick's face!! in the same breath, it was also said that we would spray paint her black. spray paint a whippet black? see? this is where things got out of control - who in the world would ever take that as a threat. he certainly didn't seem to at the park that night. if he did - good luck with reality. puuulease!!!!! that's when it all started. but aside from that, it's over and done with. i cannot say i feel better but it is no longer on my shoulders about the ac's. life goes on and so does our hunt for our girl. end of it.

alane - i cherish you for more than one reason :)
you are wonderful!!!!

THIS WAS SENT TO ME BY ONE OF THE WEENIE QUEENS:::

"NATURAL HIGHS"
#45 - Knowing you've done the right thing,
no matter what other people think.

I love you gals, you all know that! xoxox

love you too "Mom"************
signed, your long lost polish kielbasa
xoxoxoxoxoxo

This was the opening sentence of Irene's post:

"It is possible a person close to the NYC search has Vivi as of sometime late August/early September"

It also possible that cows jump over the moon and Houdini will rise from the dead tonight. It's possible Vivi is dead. It's possible Vivi is alive.

Irene is a person close to the NYC search....so am I. The point is? I just don't get the hoopla over all this.

is the cow going to jump tonight? how entertaining!!! ....and i just saw Elvis - i swear!!! hello, Gail :)

I don't post much, but I do read this blog every day. I remember when someone voiced a negative opinion about Sir Harry prior to his coming in and everyone went nuts and accused this person of attacking him, when all she did was state a concern that happened to be negative.

I can just imagine the backlash on these wonderful girls had they posted the information that they were given. Every AC from here to there would have been attacked. These girls would have most certainly been attacked for posting "gory" details that are unsubstantiated by a scamming AC. It would go on and on. The fact is that there is a reason why the information wasn't posted. AC's are not always accurate. There was no proof that Vivi was dead. It would have made absolutely no sense to post that information and upset so many people without hardcore evidence. That would be like getting a divorce from a wonderful man because a fortune teller suggests that he is having an affair! They did what anyone with common sense would have done. They investigated further and further. Without proof of her being alive or dead, they decided to keep things going as they have been going all along. Had Vivi been found, alive or dead, they would have posted the information, no matter how bad the news may have been.

Posting false information or information not proven to be true is not helpful it's only damaging to the search. Had it been posted, it most definately would not have been believed and would have surely been attacked. This is not a matter of deception or withholding of information. It's a matter of using common sense!

Lisa E.

lisa E: said beautifully. i am glad you understand, my weenie friend.

Hey Everyone. I have not been following the blog much lately because (aside from total nonsense) I now have a full time temporary job from 9-5. Don't know how long it will last, but its money coming in, which is a really good thing...

I have not been able to do much Vivi stuff lately with Gail because of the job, but hell, I would not even know where to go or what to do at this point.

I am a little confused on all this talk lately about someone close to the NY searchers having Vivi and the searchers withholding information.

We could not control when Harry came in or where he went to search, what makes you, Beth, think that we can cotrol police reports or his continuing his investigation. What information where we withholding. Exact addresses of sightings? Didn't we all agree that we would not post this info. so people would not go running around bumping into each other??

What information do you all want to know? That AC's and psychics think Vivi is Dead??? As far as I know, none of these people gave me an exact location of where Vivi's body is lying dead so I for one do not believe this until I see it with my OWN EYES. Could Vivi be dead, yes, she could be dead. I say this only because where the hell is she? How come there have been no sightings? Other than this, who really knows where she is???

Do I really need to go on the blog saying these things. What purpose would that serve? I am sure everyone has this on their minds already.

Do I think one of us or someone we know has Vivi. Damned if I know. But, I highly don't think sooo....

If you are referring to Harry or Terri having Vivi, they are not considered part of "Team Vivi" so this has nothing to do with us..

Irene and Beth, if anyone has to come clean with the truth, it seems that you both do. Because I am not reading any facts here, but innuendo's and insinuations. If anyone has something to say, really say, just spit it out and get it over with.

What exactly are you trying to imply? That we know where Vivi is and just carring on a charade as a joke?

Why would I spend all damn day Saturing in 50mph winds to fool the bloggers? Is anyone one of us getting a kick out of making phone calls to make plans because we are sick, crazed peopled looking for a little spice in life?? Give me a break here. I have much better things to do with my time than this...

I ask you all again! TELL ME EXACTLY WHAT YOU THINK IS GOING ON HERE? EXACTLY!!! BECAUSE I DO NOT HAVE THE TIME, NOR THE ENERGY, FOR TRYING TO READ BETWEEN THE LINES AND FIGURE OUT WHAT IS BEING IMPLIED....

Name names in your replies, we can take it...

Bonnie and I have already make tenative plans to start posting "the other side" of Forest Park, possibly into Brooklyn. Would we do this, if we were hiding something?? What purposes would this service? I think some of us have been reading too many mystery novels and TV shows...

Apparently, there is supposed to be several trackers coming in this weekend. I am anxiously waiting to see what they find. At this point and only at this point, I will make my decision on whether to carry on or let it all go. My decision will be based on the trackers information. NOT THE BLOGGERS OR THE OTHER SEARCHERS OPINIONS...

kathy: i'm surprised to see you here - i thought you would still be blowing around queens.....
glad to see that you've finally landed, my friend.
email me when you hear the timing of the trackers, ok? i'm sure it'll be a very very early morning. ugh.......

Would it help for out of towners to begin faxing that side of Forest Park? If so, be specific about the neighborhoods, I mean enough information we can look up addresses. Thx

Hi you lovely team weenies! I for one wish we could get past this who has Vivi stuff. Our lady foot soldiers certainly don't have her and as far as posting everything they hear? I would rather have them spend their time out on the streets (sorry ladies)and not here on the blog posting everything they hear. That would be a waste of their precious time and they already give 24/7.
Darlene...Gail....did you say a cow was going to jump over the moon tonight? Maybe the cow is my sis's Minnie Pearl! Better warn Lori- Minnie is a pretty big girl now and when she lands someone is going to get hurt and it won't be Minnie! R U N!!!!

To change the subject. Darlene, Debbie, Monica and Lois T (and Diane Flyer Queen if you are there), do you need any 8.5 x 11 posters for this weekend. I can print some on a color printer now and send to Diane. Thanks.

After eight months of searching for the elusive little Vivi, every-ones nerves are on edge. When ever we don't have a sighting for a while it hits the fan. It is my belief that not one person on this blog would do anything to hurt her. But who do you blame for not hearing anything? Your neighbor? Your friend? Someone who has spend every free minute working to make people aware of her plight? NO NO NO I think-this all started on an unfortunate use of the word, close Get a freaken grip girls--------

karen: that's east new york brooklyn.
also a bit past is brownsvile brooklyn. both are pretty crowded with businesses so those should be a handful for starters. thanks for helping!!!!