Let Paul Newman die in peace
Is Paul Newman dying or not?
A report in London’s Daily Mail cites the usual “close family friend,” as saying that legendary actor had left the New York City hospital where he’d been treated for cancer. The unidentified pal continued: “Paul didn’t want to die in the hospital” and had gone home.
With friends like this, the 83-year-old actor hardly needs enemies. Newman has always kept a sensible distance from the celeb press. Instead of posing for the paps, he’s an old-fashioned up-front philanthropist (Hole in the Wall Gang for disabled children; Newman’s Own foods, which has dispensed $175 million to charity) and political activist (liberal Democrat). Unlike a newer generation of Hollywood stars, he’s never seen fit to, say, sell photos of his new-born children.
So, given the man’s grace, it’s maybe too much to hope that he could be left alone to get on with his life, or his death, as the case may be. Instead, the bloggers – perhaps smarting from last week’s failure to pick up on the Bernie Mac story before it was too late – are weighing in.
“Newman,” reports something called ‘Readandgain,' "is said to be putting his affairs in order and even gave away his prized Ferrari -- a move that apparently angered his children who are having a hard time coming to grips with his imminent death.
And the so-called mainstream press, depressingly, is following close behind. His wife, actress Joanne Woodward and his daughters “are beside themselves with grief," reports Fox News – courtesy of another (unnamed) source.
Well, then, just leave the man -- and his wife and his kids, maybe even his family 'friends' -- alone.
-See 42 photos of Paul Newman through the years
--By Linda Perney
Comments (44)
Dear hippo-crat
Practice wy preach
Thank you so much for this, Ms. Perney. I subscribe to google news alerts on Mr. Newman, because a company I consult to has worked with Newman's Own and we all have a tremendous amount of respect and affection for him. I'm so sick of the reports from around the globe burying him -- and invading the privacy he's worked his whole life to protect.
Again, my thanks-
Lori
Hearing of Paul Newman's unfortunate news makes me so sad and my hat is off to you for encouraging people to leave the man and his family and friends alone to live his remaining days in peace as no one unless you have gone through it knows how painful it is during and after.
We will have a lifetime of memories thanks to the films he created and he will live on forever and be loved forever, for some never die, he is one.
Cancer is ugly, it struck my family many times, but what is uglier is not honoring the last precious private times a family has, I hope people will......you can't get it back....God Bless to the Newman Family and all that are close to them.
I couldn't agree with you more. He's lived his lift with dignity and selflessness. There should be many more like him in Tinseltown. He (and his family) deserves better than to have circling culture vultures in his final hours.
(BTW: Hi, Linda! We worked together at Travel Holiday a million years ago! Just stumbled on this post and had too look up the name -- there couldn't be more than one Linda Perney in NY journalism!)
I have been blessed to know Paul Newman. He is a man of great stature. He is so sweet and light spoken but his presence is so powerful. I am from Cleveland Ohio and I had the honor to work with Paul and his racecar team where I met him on more than one occasion. I have a picture of him and myself at a dinner and his smile is amazing. His blue eyes shine thru. It will be a sad day when he passes. God bless the family and god please make an amazing place in heaven for this angel.
My philosophy is "Do not assume the worse, because His plan is in greater detail." For the folks that are trying to bury Paul Newman based on age and illness better watch out: God does not have a specific age or illness to bring in His angels. My heart and prayers are wishing for Paul's recovery. I also say to the vultures to leave the man alone! Let Paul Newman do what he needs to do!
Hear hear, this man is a pioneer and a hero in his field, he deserves the upmost respect.
Its a pity others in Hollywood dont follow his lead and make more positive work of their image and earnings.
I had met Paul Newman back in 1953 or 54. I had lived in Queens Village, NY, and being in High School those years, worked in a local drugstore part-time (Roth's Drug Store). I had waited on him and talked to him at that time. He was living in a apartment complex on Hillside Ave., in Queens Village. Been a fan of him since. I am now 71, retired from the military, and living in NJ. Would be nice if someone could let him know that I remember him from 54 years ago. Let's let this man enjoy his lifeand leave him be.
Dear Ms Perney: You say, "Let Paul Newman die in peace" but then say that with his friends. who respect his wishes not to pursue chemo into the grave, who needs enemies. This shows disrespect, not only of Mr. Newman, but also of his friends who probably care much more for him than you do. "Judge ye not!"
It is amazing that someone with such noterity such as Mr. Newman understood the importance of kindness.
This man was truly the genuine article... whether you agree with his politics, at least have the respect to honor him for his integrity and verve in supporting what he believed... a movie star iconoclast... how refreshing! I wish there were more movie idols who transcended their superficial status and truly commited their fame and forutne to improving the world in which we live... they might actually give substance to the term "star".
Paul Newman has shown all of us a good time for many, many, years and we will all pray for him and his family.Now its time to leave him alone with his family.
Thanks Paul your the Bee's Knee's.
I have been a big fan of Paul Newman ever since the first time I saw "Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid." To hear that he only has a few weeks left to live is so very sad. The world is about to lose one of it's greatest entertainers. My prayers are with Joanne and the kids. To the press, leave the man alone, for God's sake. If he wants to die in peace, I say, let him.
Paul Newman is one of the "good guys". He has a heart of gold.Thank you Joanne for sharing him with us.And God Bless you and your family in the days ahead.
Thank you for all of the memories you have given everyone over the years. We have laughed and cryed with you all of our lives and not even knowing us, have stood up for our rights. Now you take your time with your family and do what you will, to enjoy what you have left. EVERYONE SHOULD RESPECT YOUR PRIVACY at this time. Paul has given and given and given. JUST GIVE HIM AND HIS FAMILY THIS TIME TO THEMSELVES! PLEASE! They need you prayers for extra time together and Paul, for the strength to enjoy what he has left.
Thank you Joanne and family for sharing him with us. May God Bless you all and give you the strength! The prayers are coming to you daily!
Madame,
You have just quoted every 'media source' that you so vehemently deride! Just about every cheap headline concerning the man and his health, so how does this make you separate from the pack? Like 'Access Hollywood' doing a story on the gutter press, while they themselves obviously paid someone to be there and shoot it! This is the height of hypocritical reportage. You will not stand out from the crowd. Mr. Newman is and will always be a class act, unlike the rest of you.
Mr.Newman-- I have enjoyed your movies all of my life,especially the Sting,Butch and Sundance,and Cool Hand Luke. But my biggest appreciation is for your love of auto racing. It infected me at an early age as well and I can't get it out of my system (Some people may not know this but Mr.Newman won a very serious road race a few years ago at the age of 80 or 81. It wasn't some lame celeb charity race but an actual professional auto race where he beat guys literally half his age or less). Your Newman- Haas-Lanigan team is one of the best and is always a threat in the Indy Car Series every weekend. God Bless You,Paul,regardless of outcome, and may He bestow His Glory always on you and your family. Thanks for making this world a MUCH better place by being a part of it!
there are so many parades in the city lately,
let's make a parade for Paul Newman, while
he can enjoy people tribute for his art, for his gentleness
and charities.
Let him watch the TV set, see the love of Tri State Area,
I believe that hundreds of people will show up.
Is not greater recognition than Live recognition for a Live icon.
Lets hear
R&B singer Erykah Badu says she picks her pick our friends like she picks her fruit. Well, so do I, and that's why I don't have that many. But seriously, while I still have hope that I will, I am a realist.
I'm also a big judge of character in a person (yes, that's a line from THE COLOR OF MONEY, but it's true for me), and sadly, there's not too much 'good' character in the world today. But, again, I still have hope. I, myself, have adopted what I consider to be two pretty good definitions of CHARACTER:
1) Character - When what you think, say, and do are the same thing.
2) Character - What you're doing when no one else is looking.
To me, Paul Newman is the living embodiment of character. Though I have never met him, I proudly think of him as a "kindred spirit". Subsequently, and just as proudly, I consider him to be my very good friend.
In all his many life roles - husband, father, friend, humanitarian, activist, philanthropist, artist, writer, producer, director and, of course, the best actor who ever graced the stage - his brilliant character shines like a beacon, continually teaching us, through his example, the importance of living our lives on our own terms, with gusto, integrity and class. No celebrity has contributed more of his precious gifts - time, talent, money, leadership, humor, courage, confidence, hope - to so many who needed them, than "Cool Hand Paul". No other has received more love, respect, and admiration from his family, friends, partners, associates, fans and well-wishers, than he. If there is a heaven, he will definitely be on the Board of Directors. The world would be a sadder, lonelier place without him.
But no one lives forever, and his time with us, unfortunately, is limited more than most. That is why we must give this precious time to our beloved friend to be at peace with his God, and with those closest to him who love him - and those whom he loves - the most. For his part, he has done more than enough, and now must rest. Let us honor our beloved Paul Leonard Newman, the undisputed KING OF CHARACTER. You are, and forever shall be, my hero and my friend. I love you.
I was at Nelson Ledges in the mid-70's watching on the outside of turn 13. Here comes the B/Sports bunch roaring up to turn 12 with PLN third and the two guys leading manage to bang each other off the track in opposite directions and presto! can you say it? Just like in the movies, cars flying off the track, dust flying everywhere and PLN shoots out from between them into the lead! It was magic.
My deepest sympathies to the family and friends of Mr. Paul Newman. We will be losing one of the greats. But, heaven will be gaining an angel. I will see you on the other-side, COOL HAND.
Too bad that all of Hollywood isn't half as good a person that Paul Newman has been and is and look what a better place it would be. Paul Newman, here's to you, your family, and friends. God bless and keep you.
I am in shock to hear that he is sick. I have been a big fun of his movies and his works for over 20 years. I am deeply sorry for his family who will miss him terribly.
However, life is eternal, just remember that. You may not be able to see him, but he will always be there, just smile and he will respond!
Take Good Care of him during his last days visible in front of your eyes.
I wish everyone would live their lives like Mr. & Mrs. Newman. I am originally from Cleveland, Ohio and had always hoped that someday I would have the pleasure of meeting them.
Such a dignified, classy couple. I can't think of enough to say.
My thoughts are with the family, and pray that they be left alone in peace and quiet.
let the greatest meet his equally great friends peacefully, Steve McQueen, James Dean, Marlon Brando, James Coburn, Lee Marvin, Natalie Wood and the rest of the "magnificent seven". it was a wonderful two decades of hollywood with all these wonderful, talented (an under statement) individuals.
Well Bill O'Reilly had a tribute for Newman a few days back, so it must be true.
The one thing I remember about Newman was the way he accepted his honorary Oscar... with a videotaped message! Worse, he looked like he just tumbled out of bed! Charlie Chaplin came all the way from Switzerland to accept his honorary Oscar, but Newman couldn't be bothered! Why the Academy let him get away with that garbage is beyond me. Likewise, when he won Best Actor the next year, he was a no-show. He may be a nice guy and all, but his snubbing the Oscars - and, by extension, the industry that made him a gazillionare - was beyond tacky, and certainly not something a "class act" would even think of doing.
Husband , Jim, treated with "Avastin " at Duke Medical in Durham NC. Many positive results for Lung suffers. Dr.Henry Friedman is one of three who specialize there..My Jim had 90 days .....that was 16 months ago......just wondering if his Family or " Dear Mr.Newman " has the strength to speak with these Doctor's about it.?Just now FDA approved.Heart with whole family. Prayers also.
Well if this whole article isn't just a fine example of The pot calling the kettle black. With "Journalism" like this, who needs enemies?
What a ride it has been for the one true film star who has taken his craft to unprecedented levels over the years. I'm not one for idolatry but I must confess that this man brings the "fan" out in me. God bless him and may he have a peaceful passing! He'll be "elevated" to angel status very,very soon. RIP my friend.
There has never been a classier, generous, philanthropical man in hollywood. nothein else needs to be said except we love you, and my you live your last days in peace.
dear paul, in all your life, I seen you as a serviver,great movie star,director,racer, I can not say how is it, too be so sad,after all a great life you had, you never had to go hungry, and lost every thing 5 times, not to speak of what a great wife and actress in her own right , you had by your side:with children,& family:
We can still have his salad dressing
I have never had the pleasure of meeting Paul Newman. I do know some of the best movies I have ever seen was with him and Robert Redford.Who could ever forget Butch Casity and the Sundance kid. I will always hold them close in my heart,as I know millions of people around the world. May God keep his loving arms around both of you forever.
I just want to say he is going to be missed. He is such a great person in life and in his movies. I met him 2 to 3 times in Cleveland at the GrandPre. He will always have a special place in my heart for being a great person. He did not act like other celebritys. He was down to earth and talked to me which I will forever remember. We are so sad by the news, me and my husband will not return back to the races. He touched alot of people and I was greatful to be one of them.
To his wift and family:
Your husband and father will be remember for all the special things he has done for alot of people. He will be remember in the hearts of alot of Cleveland, Oh fan's.
Paul the pits are open come on in.
C'mon guys, let's not bury Paul before he's dead!
Reading this column is like reading an obituary. The man's not dead , and hopefully won't be for some time yet!
I have always loved Paul....He and I have the same birthday...How cool is that? We are also celebrating the same years of marriage.50. Hope all these rumors are wrong. He and his family are in our prayers....
Newsday runs a blog asking the press to respect Newman's privacy and let the man live or die in peace. Immediately after the post it offers a link to "42 pictures of Paul Newman over the years." Leave him alone....but let's look at him again before he's dead. Sounds weird to me.
So sorry to hear about Paul, we will always love him.HE and his family are in our prayers...
I cant imagine not having my favorite actor since i was young not being in my life.
I will be heart broken when he passes away.
I wish i had a dime for every time I watched COOL HAND LUKE, especially when he gave us that smile after eating all them eggs.
Or how many times i watched THE STING, just one of the most terrific movies ever.
I will never again see blue eyes like he has.
Even now Paul is just as good looking as he ever was.
It will be a sad day for me, i dont even want to think about it.
I will keep you in my prayers forever.
PEACE!!!
I have had the pleasure of knowing Paul being involved for a short time with his racecar here in CT. He is an AMAZING person. I loved watching Paul & his wife together. This man has done so many incredible things in his life, let him live the rest of it in private. That's the best gift I think you can give in return for all he has done over the years. Just let him have his privacy.
Paul, I will always remember, warm water. Thank you for letting me share time with you and the team. Smiles ~ Tina (Ryan Stone)
Besides being one of the great actors of his (or any) time, Paul Newman was one of the most generous, in a group of generous people. If he is dying, we should all transform our grief into support for one of his many charities; I suggest the Hole in the Wall Gang camps for seriously ill children.
Paul, I thank you for sharing your craft and your big heart with the
world. I grew up watching you on the large screen. You will be missed. You seemed a truly natural.
I had the pleasure of renting my small humble home to your
daughter Mel, here in Santa Cruz. Very humble beautiful young
lady.
My prayers are with all of you. May God give each one of you in the
family his strengh to get through the other side.
To a great actor. We thank you for your wonderful work in the acting world.... we thank you for the family man you are.... we thank you for the endless chartities you have bestowed upon countless many! I am 72 years old, and my family and I love you -- may the Good Lord keep you in comfort. Our prayers are with you and Joanne. We love you, Paul.
I heart goes out the Paul Newman & His wife & family during this time. I DO pray daily for each of themn,that the Lord will keep HIS Loving arms around them. Paul Newman IS & will ALWAYS be the Man in my heart.. I LOVE his sauces,salad dressings & will continue to use them (they ARE the best). I take my hat off to Paul Newman. He IS a very proud man & HIGHLY respected & thought of too. Love You Mr. Newman.